men and church

Last night we held 'Liquid Church' at HT. Our theme was 'Spiritual Detox' It was an opportunity for people to reflect, meditate, pray and participate in a variety of different ways. No start, no end , no singing, no preach. It was a good evening and great to meet new people who may not have easily come to traditional church.
But something is bothering me. Talking to G, and just getting his take on the evening, he commented how few men were there. And he was right. And the men who were there, may have been there more as a support for their other halves than because they had chosen to be there in their own right. I'm wondering why that was the case.
Was the theme too 'feminine'? Or is it the format? Despite our best efforts, is it still too touchy feely?
It's the 3rd Liquid Worship we've done and the numbers are steadily growing, but overall the women vastly out number the men. Have men already made their mind up that this won't be for them? Will this approach always appeal more to women than men, or is it that men just can't be bothered to participate, contribute or even just give it a go? Trouble is, we're in a bit of a catch 22 - how do we break out of this when we struggle to get men to help put the programme together? I realise I'm probably guilty of type casting but it's frustrating me plus I'm also trying to provoke all you men out there to comment.
Oh, and ironically - when's the next 'Liquid Worship'? - Mothering Sunday that's when - you chaps will all be flocking to that!

is it art?

Coincidentally, after our discussion on Wednesday night about modern and conceptual art, jonny baker has posted a blog about Banksy and the tension between his art, what it stands for and the commercial interest it's now attracting. Even if you're not very interested in that discussion, you might want to take a look at some of his work.

following a Northumberland conversation

You might like to take a look at the following.
Kester Brewer is fairly well known in emerging church circles and has just recently revamped his blog. He's written a book called 'The Complex Christ' - I've not read it yet but have it on my list. Just thought his latest post was quite amusing and interesting in the light of what we were thrashing out on Wednesday evening!

glimpses of heaven

Back from a great 2 days in Northumberland with buddies.

Memories of;

Remote, beautiful landscapes
A (very) large 4 poster bed

Prayers in Hexham Abbey

Real fires

Being locked out of the hotel at 12.30 in the morning

Wine and beer flowing

good conversation (did Wendy really say she was hot in bed?)

laughter

community......

.....here's to the next time....

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year!
Returned from London today after memorable New Year celebrations. When I said we'd be on the telly, I was presuming it would be when Big Ben struck 12, but that's not quite how it all worked out.
In an attempt to be super organised and beat the thronging masses, we went up to town early. After a stroll around the beautiful Thames side - (in the rain), a visit to Somerset House to take in the skating (in the rain), a (warm and dry) Italian meal and a further (absolutely drenching) stroll around Trafalgar Square, the thought of warmth and comfort back at our friend's place was just too strong to resist. So that's what we did. PSL went to bed at 10.30, and my buddy and me popped open the champagne and watched the stunning fireworks, and 'The Feeling 'playing live at Somerset House...from her lounge. Not exactly what we'd planned but we had a great laugh anyway. Can't decide if we made the best decision or were middle-aged losers.....and no...don't post your replies to that rhetorical question. Looking forward to our trip to Northumberland tomorrow with fellow ThirdSpacers.